refactor!: move go-chi/session into Gitea (#39504)

The `gitea.com/go-chi/session` package only exists for Gitea, so it
moves into `modules/session` to fix its bugs directly. Fixes the flake
in
https://github.com/go-gitea/gitea/actions/runs/36726154500/job/109923538400.

- Sessions are only written back when changed, so a read-only request
can't revert a concurrent change or restore a logged-out session, like
https://github.com/go-macaron/session/commit/ae808a4a4660c802965c834299ab08f167effd12
- The session cookie is only set once a session holds data
- Every backend refreshes the expiry on load and file sessions are
written atomically
- Also fix  https://github.com/go-gitea/gitea/issues/36176

## ⚠️ BREAKING ⚠️

* the `mysql`, `postgres`, `couchbase` and `memcache` session providers
are removed, use `file`, `db` or `redis` instead
* login-related cookies are renamed to `gitea_session` and
`gitea_remember`, if you'd like to use the old names, set `COOKIE_NAME`
and `COOKIE_REMEMBER_NAME` in app.ini

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Co-authored-by: wxiaoguang <wxiaoguang@gmail.com>

services/contexttest/context_tests.go

@@ -70,7 +70,7 @@ func MockContext(t *testing.T, reqPath string, opts ...MockContextOption) (*cont
 	ctx := context.NewWebContext(base, opt.Render, nil)
 	ctx.SetContextValue(chi.RouteCtxKey, chiCtx)
 	if opt.SessionStore != nil {
-		ctx.SetContextValue(session.MockStoreContextKey, opt.SessionStore)
+		ctx.SetContextValue(session.ContextKey, opt.SessionStore)
 		ctx.Session = opt.SessionStore
 	}
 	ctx.Cache = cache.GetCache()