chore(deps): bump tool deps and pin, update golangci-lint (#37574)

1. Pin all makefile go deps to exact version, renovate will bump them in the future
2. Bump all deps and golangci-lint and fix all new issues, most are from modernize

Signed-off-by: silverwind <me@silverwind.io>
Co-authored-by: Claude (Opus 4.7) <noreply@anthropic.com>

modules/packages/rubygems/marshal.go

@@ -91,7 +91,7 @@ func (e *MarshalEncoder) marshal(v any) error {
 	val := reflect.ValueOf(v)
 	typ := reflect.TypeOf(v)
 
-	if typ.Kind() == reflect.Ptr {
+	if typ.Kind() == reflect.Pointer {
 		val = val.Elem()
 		typ = typ.Elem()
 	}