chore(deps): bump tool deps and pin, update golangci-lint (#37574)

1. Pin all makefile go deps to exact version, renovate will bump them in the future
2. Bump all deps and golangci-lint and fix all new issues, most are from modernize

Signed-off-by: silverwind <me@silverwind.io>
Co-authored-by: Claude (Opus 4.7) <noreply@anthropic.com>

models/unittest/reflection.go

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ import (
 )
 
 func fieldByName(v reflect.Value, field string) reflect.Value {
-	if v.Kind() == reflect.Ptr {
+	if v.Kind() == reflect.Pointer {
 		v = v.Elem()
 	}
 	f := v.FieldByName(field)